It's no secret. You're the Average of the 5 People you always hang out with. And for most of us, it will be our friends.
I used to be extremely lazy. Always looking for shortcuts to do anything in my life. Love all the parties and gave myself the excuses to rest the next day. My diet was rubbish, literally killing myself with all the fast food and sodas. People I hang out with all have the same lifestyle.
When i ditched these 'friends' and hang out with new ones, my life change. I start to work out, lose weight, eat healthy, focus, and suddenly.....all the good things start to happen in my life.
If you can't find friends around you that will empower you, go online to search! Even if you need to PAY to be in a close door community, pay it and be with those people who are focused on being successful.